In a family, there are many different types of people and personalities that can contribute to fights or other issues. When that happens, it may be wise to seek the consult of a family therapist. A family therapist will help break down the systems of the family, as well as look at each individual person’s contribution to the family unit. By identifying patterns as well as working together to create systems that will help the family thrive as a unit, the therapist can really help a family become a more cohesive and harmonious family. Oftentimes in family therapy, parents can learn parenting skills on how to help control a child that may be a little out of control or overactive. Similarly, in family therapy, the therapist may work with the parents to strengthen their relationship as opposed to the relationship with either one of the parents and the child. Family therapy is very common and you can ask for a referral from your doctor or therapist. Sometimes individual therapy can be helpful in sort of understanding your contribution to a situation, but when it feels like it’s out of control and there’s too many people that are contributing to the problem, it may be time to seek a family therapist. Oftentimes, family therapists will be able to see the whole picture of the family. They’ll be able to look at this is what the child is contributing and looking for in the family relationship. This is what the father’s looking for. This is what the mother’s looking for. This is what any other individual in the relationship is looking for, and this is how they’re contributing to the family dynamic that’s creating problems, arguments, and other issues. Oftentimes people think, oh, I can just tough it out or deal with it myself, but that’s exactly the time when you should go seek a therapist to help you identify the things that you may not be able to identify yourself.